6 Positive thinking tips to attract success and happiness

6 Positive thinking tips to attract success and happiness

There are many heavy things, which you find difficult to lift up. Negative thoughts are one of those heavyweight things. Though you can't really see them, surely you can feel them. And the positive thinking is the most energy giving and productive activity you need to follow.

What are negative thoughts?
Why they feel so heavy inside your head?
Why negative thoughts drains all of your energy and make you feel paralyzed?
How to overcome negative thoughts and think positive thoughts?

We will see answers to all the above questions and know how to make your life better with positive thinking.

Before starting about positive thinking, first of all, let's know what are negative thoughts?

There are all types of thoughts in our mind. Some thoughts make us feel happy and some make us sad.

Some thoughts bring us a profit and some loss.

Some thoughts make us laugh a lot and some make us cry.

Some thoughts make us feel courageous and some to be afraid.

Some make us angry and some make us feel the love.

And some of the thoughts just come and go from our mind without affecting us much.
I think you might have got some idea about the difference between negative and positive thoughts.

Negative thoughts are those thoughts which change your mood negatively. Which makes you sad, afraid and less confident and sometimes fill your mind with anger and hatred.

Can we control them? Can we eliminate them from our mind completely?

An answer to the second question is no but answer to the first question is yes.

Our mind is always full of thoughts, with some positive and some of the negative. We cant fully eliminate negative thoughts from our mind.

But we can change our thought process to convert negative thoughts into positive thoughts by following few simple but effective processes.

1. Use positive affirmations - do positive self-talk

Let us first see why negative thoughts come to our mind?

Remember when you were learning cycle for the first time (some of you might have not yet learned though) what thoughts came to your mind?

You might have thought that you would get fall from the cycle, you would get hurt badly and you would never learn a cycle in your whole life.

These are very natural thoughts. But these are negative ones. Actually, all of the negative thoughts which come to our mind are not to hurt us but some of them want to protect us.

It's actually a gift which makes us safe from many dangers. But only if these negative thoughts are in a certain amount.

Whatever you try to do, for the first time or even for the 100th time, there will always be a doubt in your mind, whether you can do it or not?
If you allow your doubt to take control of your mind, this will convert into powerful negative thought which comes automatically. And it's natural.

Always keep in mind that many times automatic negative thought may arrive in your mind as a natural phenomenon. But you can change this negative thought by positive thinking, for example - you can change the negative thought “I could not learn a cycle” by saying “I can learn a cycle by practice”. This will avoid procrastination thinking of your mind.

This is a positive affirmation. Tell yourself repeatedly that you can do all the things, you want to do.
Talk back to your negative automatic thoughts and replace them with positive self-talk, positive affirmations. Always remember, 1 positive thought is 100 times more powerful than a negative thought.

Just tell yourself that you will get whatever you want by doing right things required. This positive self-talk will make you feel happy and gives you a feeling of satisfaction and an energy to achieve the desired results.

2. Believe in yourself.

When any negative thought comes, you don't feel confident and vice versa.

Many times when you are not sure about your situations negative thoughts to start feeling inside your mind. Then the battle to tackle these negative feelings, negative thoughts get started inside your mind.

This causes lots of drainage of your mental energy. That's why your mind feels heavy and less energetic when in negative feelings.

But when you feel full confidence in your work, your mind actually generates an immense amount of energy to do any of your work. You become enthusiastic and complete the work you are on.

Why? Because when you feel confident you actually have full faith in your ability, in your knowledge, in your skills.

There is a famous phrase -

Eagle doesn't get afraid of sitting on a weak trunk if it gets broken.
Because eagle is having faith in its feathers and not in the trunk.

Same, when you make yourself confident by believing in yourself, by believing in your abilities, skills, and knowledge then you don't need to be afraid. You can tell yourself that you can accomplish your tasks definitely. This is called as a positive thinking.

Just look at you and tell yourself that you have all the abilities to achieve and get the things you want in your life. Just believe in yourself.

3. Surround yourself with positive people

When do you feel negative? When negative thoughts come inside your mind.

But there are external sources also, which may plant negative thoughts in your mind. These sources are the negative thinking people.

Even if you are feeling positive from the inside, but if any person started speaking negatively, having doubt in your ability then this will also lead to making you think negatively. These type of negative people are like energy suckers and negative environment makers.

Always try to identify such people around you and try to avoid them as much as possible. Stay away from any external source of negative energy. Keep them outside of your mind.

Positive thinking people also spread positive environment around them. Identify such positive people and be around those positive people.

4. Visualize positive situations

Rina was preparing her presentation for her meeting on next day. She was not feeling much confident while making a presentation, whether it will be good or not. She started having doubt about the quality of her presentation, because of her perfectionist behavior.

Her doubt becomes stronger and stronger while making a presentation. And she started thinking negatively. She was visualizing that - "on next day my presentation will not be good. I will make mistakes and my boss will not be happy.".
What happens on next day? She was so afraid about her meeting that she was not able to take proper sleep at night and wakes up late. Then she was in so hurry that she didn't have her breakfast.
Results, less energy, dull face and dull presentation. And her negative visualization becomes true.

This is a simple example of negative visualization. Instead, if she self-talk positively and visualize positive outcome here situation might be different.

Try to visualize positive outcomes. Visualize positive thoughts and situations. This will make your mind fill with energy to do things. You will relax and more productive to achieve your desired tasks.

5. Will you come outside and move forward only when all the signals are green?

Imagine you tell yourself that until and unless all the traffic signals on the road become green, you will not take your car out.

Sometimes we do this to all of our work. We wait for the time when all the situations become favorable to us. You think negatively that your current situation is not good enough to even try the things.

This thought process paralyzes you to take an action. Your mind becomes occupied with this “red signal feeling”. Just talk back and ask the question - “Will you come outside your house and move forward only when all the signals are green?”.

Tell yourself that situations will never always be perfectly favorable to you. You have to move forward, signals by signals. If you find in your path some situations as red signals, still try to move out, start working soon red signals will turn green.

6. Have a faith in God

It's your personal choice whether you believe in God or not. But having faith in God leads us to a most positive form of energy.

Think God as a fatherly figure who will always stand by you. Thank God for whatever you have and ask help to the God in every situation. This will give you relief and a sense of security.

When your mind feels relax it generates more energy and a chain of positive thoughts will flow in your mind. Just try it out to check the results.

The above article about positive thinking is written from the reference of awesome books named “The Power of Positive Thinking” By Dr. Norman Vincent Peale and “David D., M.D. Burns, Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy” by David Burns.

You can get more help on positive mindset and positive thinking lifestyle by reading these awesome books.

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